Hi. I’m John, and I’m a sex addict

It has taken me a long time to say those words. Denial - to myself and others. Lies - to myself and others. Betrayal- to myself and others. I didn't have a problem. SHE had the problem. I wasn't disrespectful of her needs. SHE was the disrespectful and unloving one. It was never my fault … Continue reading Hi. I’m John, and I’m a sex addict


Day 300

I haven't written in a long time. I was angry for a while, and very restless, irritable, and discontent. Grace and I have grown a lot in the past 9 months, and we're constantly learning and growing. We've started couple's counseling again, and I moved back in at the beginning of April. In May I … Continue reading Day 300

Day 120

Recovery is a rollercoaster. It has been 120 days without orgasm. That probably hasn't happened since high school or maybe junior high school. My body recognizes this, and there have been some negative and uncomfortable physical effects, which I will spare you the details of.  Grace and I are working through reconnecting, and learning while … Continue reading Day 120